Missing Something

My Pastor has been preaching a series called Missing Something. It has been a series that really makes you reflect. I stopped today to remember who I was before I surrendered to Christ. I wasn't a good person, I lied, stole, and cheated my way though life.  I had been neglected and abused in some way my whole life.  After I learned who I was in Christ I started demanding better for myself, I prayed for God to deliver me from the hands of the people who were, at the age of 24, still abusing me. I am not the same abused and broken girl I once was then, but I still have deep wounds that only time and God can heal.
  Pastor Ralph's teachings have been about having The Joy of the Lord, Being Humble, Having Confidence, and Perseverance and Focus.
     The Joy of The Lord; When you think about JOY, you think overwhelming happiness. But the Joy that you have, learn to have, when you are a Child of God, is more of a confidence. It's KNOWING who God is and KNOWING that he uses everything in your life for GOOD.
       Being Humble; A humble person is someone who is grateful and doesn't think too highly of themselves, but for me I believe it is more than that. Being Humble is more for me about Mercy and Grace and well as Gratitude and Honor.
        Confidence isn't about a good self-esteem and who You are ALONE, but about Knowing Who God says you are and Knowing who He is and KNOWING He always does what He says.
         Perseverance and Focus; Well I think this is the simplest of concepts but the hardest in application, well at first and sometimes in the middle and at the end as well.  Keeping your Focus on God when your "world" is crumbling around you. But that's the thing, your world isn't crumbling!  The Enemy whispers those lies trying to get you to take your eyes off of Jesus, forgetting the very important fact that God works EVERYTHING in your life for GOOD. Staying to Fight each Battle to be able to WIN the WAR!!
   When the scars start to open, I need to stay focused on the One Who Saved ME!! The One who cut the chains that bound me to a life of abuse. My Daddy is God and my Big Brother is the Big Bad Jesus him self, and with them being for me, Who can successfully stand against me!

Thank You Pastor Ralph Morris for being obedient to God!

Only By God's Grace, Learning To Live Humble

  God has given me the gift of being able to cook well as well as the gift to enjoy it, a lot! Well today I figured I'd make up a batch of Duncan Hines brownies, Duncan Hines NEVER disappoints me! NEVER! Well I must have overcooked them, because they were the driest brownies EVER!! No wonder no one at the party ate more than one! But the good part about this is, tomorrow they will be covered in vanilla ice cream and hot fudge!! They will be yummy, even if I have to add 1000 calories to them to make them editable!! lol
  I believe that I have been too proud of my cooking. I also believe that God is humbling me in this regard.  I know that pride is the fastest way to Hell and the fastest way to lose friends.  The Bible says: The pride of man will be humbled And the loftiness of men will be abased; And the Lord alone will be exalted in that day, Isaiah 2:17 (NASB) . I know that just as easily as God  gave me this gift he can take it away in a heartbeat.  I do not want to tempt him, yet I catch my self boasting that I am a good cook or I find myself comparing my food to my friends food. How audacious of me to think that my skills or gifts are better than someone else! James says this, But as it is, you boast in your arrogance; all such boasting is evil. James 4:16 (NASB) or How about this in Jeremiah 9:23 (NASB)

Thus says the Lord, "Let not a wise man boast of his wisdom, and let not the mighty man boast of his might, let not a rich man boast of his riches; But in Romans, it shows us that boasting in the Lord is good; Romans 15:17 (NASB) Therefore in Christ Jesus I have found reason for boasting in things pertaining to God.

   I have a friend who doesn't have a Gift for cooking, she does a good job but admits to lacking in that department.  She is the most creative person, OMGoodness, she pulls ideas out of her head for craftiness that I only wished that I could do what she does. But I would NOT trade my cooking ability for her crafting ability, no way, no sir!!  Being able to put a good tasty meal on the table for my family is part of the fabric of who I am!     Here is a great thing about friendships and family, we can play off each other strengths and talents.  We can help one another, teach one another, go to one another for ideas and help. Isn't that what being a christian is all about? Helping each other strive and grow through the love of Jesus Christ. Check out what Paul says in his second letter to the church in Corinth, For the love of Christ controls us, having concluded this, that one died for all, therefore all died;  2 Corinthians 5:14 (NASB). I am so incredibly grateful that God has given us his infallible word to live by! With out it, With out Him I would be LOST!!  I love being christian!!  God is So Good, All the TIME!!

God Bless!

The Tongue Is The Hardest Member To Tame

Has a friend ever hurt you with their words and you were scare to say anything because you were afraid they were going to get defensive and blow up?   I know I sure have and I usually just stuff whatever it is down deep and keep a mental log of how they hurt me.  Well I am the friend who did the offending this time. I have made comments in a friendly teasing way (to me at least) and other comments that just plain out sounded like criticism or judgement.  I just found out that a very good friend of mine (I would consider Best Friend) was ready to write me off because of my tongue.  I am so very glad she came to me and told me that I was hurting her with my words.  Because hurting her is the very last thing I would ever want to do to her! I thought that I was working hard at getting her to trust that I was a safe friend and that our friendship could be amazing, but what I was doing was showing her that I was better than her and she was for lack of a better term a peon.  Man do I feel like pond scum right now!  I have always known that my mouth gets me in trouble and wow, did it ever!
    Proverbs 18:21 (AMP) Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they who indulge in it shall eat the fruit of it [for death or life].  Wow This verse really says it! I surely do not want our friendship to die! This is something that I will be praying to God for wisdom in! I want to only speak love and encouragement into the lives of my friends and family. This verse in Job will be a verse I am going to live by!  Job 16:5 (AMP) [But] I would strengthen and encourage you with [the words of] my mouth, and the consolation of my lips would soothe your suffering.  Thank you so much to my dear friend, who I hurt with my words. For allowing me to right a terrible wrong! I am so incredibly sorry for making you feel less than.
  If your friendship is worth it please speak up about your hurt.  If your friend thinks its worth it they will do anything they can to fix it.  Now all I have to do is build up her trust, man is this going to be hard! But WORTH IT!!!!